UNCONDITIONAL LOVE

There is no universally agreed definition of unconditional love, except that it is selfless and not outside of the experience. There are times when we believe and feel we are loving unconditionally and others that are obviously conditional. Unconditional love is an ideal held high and mighty. An ability seemingly few can demonstrate, perhaps only available to some. There are a lot of conditions that frame the unconditional circumstances of love and the feelings we give freely to love, its creation, and to its maintenance. Just the very nature of love is subjective and means different things to different people. Love demonstrates as complex but is implied to be simple. Love carries a huge energy charge that sets off multiple meanings and feelings for people. So when we try to talk about unconditional love a lot of preconceived beliefs and feelings are triggered including dogma.

If you want to love unconditionally start with yourself, this is the true starting place and toughest challenge. This should give you plenty of practice and test your ability to hold the space within yourself. We often judge ourselves harshly and loving ourselves becomes conditional. We do it unconsciously and without regard for how this impacts our bodies and the life we live. It also becomes a consequence for the people around us and all things we exist with in present time. So very often our definition of love as well as the actual feeling of love was created way back in the past and is carried with us completely unconsciously into the present. We energize love and give it life through our ability to receive from ourselves but mostly by the action of giving. Love then has momentum and carries a charge, a frequency of vibration unique to you and your conditions. So is unconditional love possible?

It all depends on what YOU mean by unconditional love. In the most basic form unconditional love can mean you don’t stop loving someone or something because it does something you judge as wrong. Here, again, you can see how overlapping the energy dynamic can be and how it influences the concept of unconditional love as well as conditional love. When I read energy and people ask me about love affairs or relationships it never looks the same in anybody, each person holds a unique “space’ regarding love. I conceptualize love as a space, a relationship that the person has within themselves and that space contains the information the person has about love.  I have never actually seen unconditional love that I could identify and witness. All the love I have ever seen is conditional. Unconditional love as an ideal is visible and only witnessed when being given to oneself.

Just because I have not seen it does not mean it doesn’t exist. It’s just not obvious because it is usually influenced by conditional considerations unconsciously. People are complex energy bundles that contain information about unconditional love, as well as, conditional love. It stands to reason that people at times are giving and receiving unconditionally but intermittently. It is also obvious that people believe they do love unconditionally even if it is a bit off. It is the believing that plays so heavily into the perceivable experience a person is having about themselves versus what is actually witnessed around them. The belief system is a powerful push on momentum and the unconditional aspect of an event, be it love or some other feeling given “freely”. Experience beyond thinking is necessary to have unconditional love witnessed and held within the energy system.

Loving unconditionally to yourself

I like to believe in unconditional love, it provides an ideal. I think a lot of people also believe in unconditional love, but believing is one thing and actually being unconditionally loving is something else. It is important to get past believing in unconditional love and actually BE loving unconditionally to yourself. This the most important aspect of this energy and vital to the potential of having this condition exist within us and around us. To actually witness unconditional love being reflected back at us in the experience is the message. Just because you are able to love yourself unconditionally does not necessarily mean you will see it in your experience and in other people, but the chances are way better. Holding the space of unconditional love with us, and directed to us by us is perhaps the most beautiful gift available. It is a challenge and a process we learn and develop over time. Witnessing unconditional love is inspirational and not often seen. It is what we all desire at our core and true for all the people I have ever met and done readings with in present time. It is very important to not only believe in this ability but to get past knowing it and integrate it into the very fabric of our being. This would include, feeling it, trusting it, connecting to it, having it be true, visualizing it and understanding it. Most importantly, having unconditional love for yourself in present time tops the list. This ability opens your energy body up to an experience unlike anything any of us have ever witnessed on this planet. This is perhaps the next chapter in our history here on Earth.